You may be one of the many who believe it is wrong to argue, disagree, engage in conflict or fight.
Such notion has all but collapsed under a barrage of information to the contrary.
People in relationship or married couples who say they have never had a fight are deluding themselves or are entirely out of touch with their emotions.
Those who refuse to acknowledge the need to fight will suffer from displaced anger such as hostility, emotional instability, depression, a long list of health problems, and/or a lack of intimacy.
"We have discovered that couples who fight together are couples who stay together - provided they know how to fight properly" - George and Peter.
Yes, it's risky to fight. But learning how to fight fair might be the most important communication skill you will ever learn.
Fighting between two people who really care about one another does not have to be destructive but rather be highly constructive. This means you are about each other so much that you will negotiate and deal with a problem until you find a mutually satisfying solution.
Finally, fighting is okay. The end results and methods involved determines if a fight is good or not.
Don't be a victim because of a norm or a general saying or belief.
You have to agree mutually before things are done.
No mutual agreement, then, no love
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